Last week, I did a bit of a rant after receiving an email from one of our (shall we say) less open minded brothers.

Probably because of that post, we received quite a few unsolicited testimonials for our work and books.

Below is one of my favorites.

It is one of my favorites because I always love to sense the TOTAL dedication to the marriage that you sense in this woman’s writing.

She is willing to learn how to better please her husband.

She talks about he “deserves” such attention.

She is vulnerable and willing to ask questions.

If you are doing wonderful in your marriage relationship, you will find pleasure in seeing other Christian couples that are forging the same path.

If you are struggling, I hope it provides you with hope that YOU TOO can experience relational and sexual miracles in your marriage.

Mr. Irwin,

I was really surprised to see you reply so quickly.

I am so thankful that you took the time to do give me such a great wealth of insight, knowledge, I’m shocked you took so much time to write so much back to me. It’s as if you are really care about our (mine & ***’s) marriage.

This really meant (means) allot to me. “Thank-you” is not enough to express that gratitude for the effect that you and your wife have had on our marriage!!

I actually found your sight on the internet when I was looking up Christian articles on how to prevent affairs in marriage & Christian sex. My husband deserves the best in my opinion and we know there should be more to the small amount of knowledge we have so… I had been reading Dr. Laura’s books (www.drlaura.com) and I wish more women would read her books…. any way I was bound and determined to provide the best I could for ***, I just lacked a lot of knowledge …. Not any more - with great credit to God using the both of you!

I wish you and your wife could hear the excitement in my voice when I say…. Do you have any idea what it feels like to me to see ***’s face BEAM will excitement and joy, satisfaction and love all at the same time? And how about my husbands unusual texting to me and talking - it’s like his tools are all being used instead of sitting in a closed tool box. What joy for me to enjoy him so much more and see him “more turned on” and see him more feeling proud of being a great husband!

I really thank you for all you both are doing!!

Thank you for caring about us and others. Thank you for serving the God of the universe who walked here on earth with us to die and save us all from sin… because you love Jesus Christ so much…I thank you BOTH for what you have done for *** & I.

Thanks for answering my question about masturbation in a way that made me feel human and very smart to ask.

Please keep our email if you both would like us to fill out a questionnaire or for receiving feed back. I (rather) We would be honored to answer/give feed back on the profound impact your books have had on our marriage, friendship, communication, comfort zones, knowledge, wisdom, etc., etc. and all with God as the center.

Janice

Have a great weekend.