Are you ready to take the sexual part of your Christian marriage to the next level?

Are you ever at a loss for new and exciting sexual ideas or activities?

Do you wish that creating the perfect, sensual and intimate evening was as easy as pointing and clicking?

Well, now it is that easy…

In just minutes from now, you can have the most comprehensive resource of fun, sexy and creative sex ideas for Christian couples ever…right at your fingertips.
“Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples,” our latest resource for Christian couples is now available and ready for your immediate download!

This book includes…

-Over 300 “Intimate Questions” and sexual conversation starters.

-Over 50 Ideas For “home made” sexual accessories.

-Over 30 Ideas For Exciting Sexual Environments.

-Over 200 Sex Games And Activities

-Over 100 Creative Lovemaking Techniques

What you won’t find…

-Soft core photos

-Questions or suggestions that don’t factor in your Christian beliefs about things that should be “off limits” for Christian couples

-Vulgar language or descriptions of body parts or sexual acts.

And, as always, as a subscriber to our newsletter, YOU can get your own copy, before anyone else, and at our “Subscribers Only” introductory price and save $20.00!

Since we were a little late getting this offer out today, we are going to make this offer a “72 Hour Special.”

You have all weekend (until Monday, March 3rd @ Noon, EST) to get your copy at the special, low introductory price.

This is a perfect way to guarantee that this weekend (and every weekend) is fun and exciting!

You can take advantage of your special discount pricing here.

Have a great weekend.

Posted: February 29th, 2008 under Christian Sex, Christian Sex Advice, Special Offers, christian sex books, christian sex education.
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Last week, in our “Christian Marriage Secrets Newsletter,” I mentioned that we were putting the finishing touches on a ew book, “Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples,” a sexual games and ideas resource.

Soon after, we received several emails from readers that were “concerned” that we would be writing and offering such book.

These individuals felt that there was no place in Christian marriage for this type of resource.

So, before we officially start offering this new book (we are pre-launching this book with a special discount offer tomorrow, February 29th), I thought it would be appropriate to explain why we developed this resource and why we are very excited and proud to be offering it to our readers…

THOUSANDS OF READERS HAVE REQUESTED IT:

Most of our readers and web visitors were introduced to our ministry through our original sex guides, Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband and Sexual Satisfaction For The Christian Wife.

These guides are considered (by many…even outside of the Irwin family) to be the standard in basic sexual education for Christian couples.

In these guides, Christian husbands and wives can discover and explore the “technical” aspects necessary to creating a positive and mutually-satisfying sexual relationship.

Without this “technical” knowledge, it would be difficult for any couple to easily achieve sexual satisfaction. In these guides, we teach couples “how to ride the bike” of marital sexuality without frustration or hitting the curb (wow…really stretching that analogy!).

But, once you know how to “ride the bike,” without falling over, you want to know how to make bike riding enjoyable, fun and interesting…for a lifetime. Riding your bike in circles in your driveway might be fun…for awhile…but, sooner or later, most will want to venture out of the
driveway.

After our readers have mastered the basic, “technical” skills of great marital sex, they then start looking for ways to make their sex lives enjoyable, fun and interesting…for a lifetime. They (I’m not giving up on this analogy) want to know how to “pop wheelies” and how to make
their “married sex biking” more exciting (suggestion: put cards in the spokes to make it sound like a motorcycle).

So, we have received, literally, thousands of requests from Christian couples that are looking for ideas, tricks, tips, suggestions on how to “spice up” their sex lives…for the long term.

WE LIKE THIS PART OF OUR JOB:

Putting together this new book was a total joy for me and Susan.

As much as we enjoy helping couples to learn “the basics” and to overcome sexual problems and limitations, there is a special pleasure in helping other Christian couples to make their sex lives truly fun and exciting.

Creating and offering this type of resource is EXACTLY what our ministry is all about: offering tangible, creative and
REAL information that will help Christian couples to make the sex in their marriages a positive, relationship-bonding and strengthening experience.

This book does exactly that.

It is filled with hundreds of ideas for stoking the fire of your marriage’s sexual relationship.

THIS IS HOW SEX IN A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE SHOULD BE:

C.S. Lewis wrote, in his book The Four Loves, “Sex that is too serious is deprived of the romp and fun that is essential to a healthy enjoyment of sex.”

Lewis Smedes, professor of theology at Fuller Seminary once said, “God made us body people. Bodies are meant to play and-we can add-to be played with.”

We titled this book “Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples” for a reason. We want to actively promote the “fun” and “playful” aspects of sex within Christian marriage.

If you have been one of our readers or visitors for any length of time, you know that one of our main goals is to destroy the dangerous and wrong notion that God intended sex to be anything less than this.

This book is a resource for sexual exploration.

What does it mean to be a sensual, yet holy, sexual explorer?

Our best Scriptural reference for sexual exploration is the Song of Solomon.

The Song of Solomon (SOS) is a beautiful and explicit description of the sexual relationship between Solomon and his new bride.

What does Scripture tell us about their journey of sexual exploration?

THEY WERE RESPONSIVE TO EACH OTHER’S SEXUAL NEEDS…

“Make my garden breathe out fragrance, let its spices be wafted abroad. May my beloved come into his garden and eat its choice fruits!” (4:16)

THEY WERE ADVENTUROUS…

“Come my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages. Let us get up early to the vineyards; let us see whether the vine hath budded, and its blossom is open, and the pomegranates are in the flower: there will I give thee my love.” (7:11-12)

THEY WERE UNINHIBITED…

She tells her husband exactly how to make love to her and dances provocatively for him.

“Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; Blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his precious fruits.” (2:6)

“How beautiful are thy feet in sandals, O prince’s daughter! Thy rounded thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a skilful workman. Thy body is like a round goblet, wherein no mingled wine is wanting: Thy waist is like a heap of wheat set about with lilies. Thy two breasts are like two fawns that are twins of a roe.” (7:1-3)

THEY WERE EXPRESSIVE…

They were not afraid to express their love and passion, verbally.

“My beloved is mine and I am his.” (2:16)

“Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men.” (2:3)

THEY WERE SENSOUS…

“My beloved is white and ruddy, the chiefest among ten thousand…His head is as the most fine gold; His locks are bushy, and black as a raven… His eyes are like doves beside the water-brooks, Washed with milk, and fitly set… His cheeks are as a bed of spices, As banks of sweet herbs:
His lips are as lilies, dropping liquid myrrh… His hands are as rings of gold set with beryl: His body is as ivory work overlaid with sapphires… His legs are as pillars of marble, set upon sockets of fine gold: His aspect is like Lebanon, excellent as the cedars…His mouth is most sweet; Yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem…” (5:10-16)

As all of this physical, sensual activity is taking place, God Himself is in the room observing.

And, his verdict is one of approval. He states, emphatically, “Eat friends, drink and imbibe deeply, O Lovers!” (5:1)

Drs. Dan Allender and Tremper Longman, in their book, Intimate Allies, say, “A taste of God is found in sexual foreplay, heightened arousal, orgasm and quiescence.”

THEY WERE CREATIVE…

You need to look no further than SOS to find creative ideas for “spicing up” your sex life. Just follow it’s example.

They made creative use of fragrance.

“My lover is to me a cluster of henna blossoms from the vineyards of En Gedi.” (1:14)

They made creative use of words.

“How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes are doves. Beloved…How handsome you are, my lover! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.” (1:15-16)

They made creative use of names.

“Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my lover among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste.” (2:3)

“You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain…

…Your plants are an orchard of pomegranates with choice fruits, with henna and nard…

…nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon, with every kind of incense tree, with myrrh and aloes and all the finest
spices…

…You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon.” (4:12-15)

They made creative use of dance.

“Come back, come back, O Shulammite; come back, come back, that we may gaze on you! Why would you gaze on the Shulammite as on the dance of Mahanaim?” (6:13)
“How beautiful your sandaled feet, O prince’s daughter! Your graceful legs are like jewels, the work of a craftsman’s hands. Your navel is a rounded goblet that never lacks blended wine. Your waist is a mound of wheat encircled by lilies.” (7:1-2)

Becoming a sexual explorer means that you have no fear about exploring all angles of your (and your spouse’s) sexuality.

“Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples” will be the resource that provides HUNDREDS of creative ideas, questions, scenarios and suggestions for bringing all of the above to your married sex life.

And, you can get your personal copy…and save $20.00 during our Pre-Launch Introduction Discount Offer!

If you want to make this coming weekend (or any weekend) especially exciting, this could be the perfect offer for you.

Just keep on eye on your inbox (and this blog) for tomorrow’s note detailing the offer…

Posted: February 28th, 2008 under Uncategorized.
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This week’s Christian Marriage Secrets Newsletter has been posted here.

Posted: February 26th, 2008 under Christian Sex, Christian Marriage.
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As a special bonus to subscribers to our “Christian Marriage
Secrets” newsletter, we occasionally offer very
limited-time special offers.

For the next 24 hours, you can download the entire
“Ultimate Christian Sex Library” for only $39.00!

Purchased separately, the entire library sells for over
$130.00.

It includes:
-Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband
-Sexual Satisfaction For The Christian Wife
-When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood
-She Loves God, Sex & Me
-101 Creative Lovemaking Ideas
-101 Romantic Ideas
-The Ultimate Christian Guide To The G-Spot Site
Subscription
-Sexy Coupons

PLUS…if you order during this limited-time offer, you
will ALSO receive a copy of our “Tastefully Illustrated
Sexual Positions For Christian Couples,” a $37.00 value, as
well!

If you have been “on the fence” about trying the secrets in
our library, NOW is the time to give them a try.

It has been quite some time since we offered a discount on
the library and it may be quite some time till we do again.

All orders absolutely must be received by Tuesday, February
26th at Noon (EST).

You can take advantage of this (extremely) limited-time
offer at:

www.achristiansexsite.com/24hourspecial/index.html

Wishing you passion in all,

Robert Irwin

Posted: February 25th, 2008 under Uncategorized, Christian Sex, Christian Sex Advice, christian sex books.
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Below is a CBS Morning Show interview with a pastor that implemented a “30 Day Sex Challenge” to his congregation.

During this challenge, married couples were to have sex every day and unmarried couples were to abstain.

This sounds like my kind of church.

Enjoy and have a great weekend.

Posted: February 22nd, 2008 under Christian Sex, Christian Marriage.
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The introduction of our new product, “Tastefully Illustrated Sexual Positions For Christian Couples,” meant that we received a flood of feedback this week.

Although most of this feedback was very positive, we did receive a few complaints that (the writer) was not skinny or fit enough to perform all of the positions outlined in the guide.

With other feedback, we will be making appropriate updates and changes. But, with this feedback, we are going to have to, respectfully, suggest that you consider…losing weight!

Now, before you throw a brick through your computer screen, consider this…

We all have our “Achille’s heel” issues…those “thorn in the side” struggles that you are simply NEVER confident that you will completely achieve victory (in this life).

And, with me, it’s my weight.

So, I am not arrogantly pointing my finger at my heavier brothers and sisters…I am one!

There are over 200 positions in our guide, so Susan and I can achieve most of them. But, not all. And, don’t even try to get me in front of a mirror right now…during ANY of them.

So, we have two choices (as with all struggles): 1) Admit Defeat. 2) Go to God in faith and take action…again.

This time (weight loss attempt number 4 million, three hundred thousand), Susan and I are going to try our friend, Dr. Frank B. Smoot’s (MA, DD) program, Weight Loss God’s Way.

Many of our readers have found success with his program and, alas, maybe we will too.

I will update you on our progress periodically.

But, either way, I can assure you that I will never “throw in the towel” on this battle (or any other). With God, each morning brings “new mercies.” And, maybe this morning he is going to be merciful relative to my weight.

I suggest that if you are struggling with your weight that you, too, determine to NOT give up the battle.

Maybe 2008 will be the year that YOU finally lose weight.

Why not try to get ALL 200 positions under your belt before you die?

Also, if you are one of the people on Weight Loss God’s Way, I’d love to hear about your progress.

Posted: February 21st, 2008 under Christian Sex, Christian Sex Advice.
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The February 20th issue of “The Christian Marriage Secrets Newsletter” is now posted here.

Posted: February 20th, 2008 under Christian Sex, Christian Marriage.
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One of the predictable downsides of any “holiday” is that the pressure to fulfill our own (and society’s) expectations for the holiday turns something potentially positive into a negative.

And, Valentine’s Day is no different…

In addition to the wonderful stories that we received about how Valentine’s Day was an opportunity for many couples to express their love for each other, we also received quite a few emails from people that found the whole “Valentine’s Day thing” to be a painful experience.

They experienced pain because their reality during this “romantic holiday” was far from what they had hoped and wished for.

If they were single, they longed for the love that “everyone else” was (supposedly) experiencing.

If they were married, their spouse’s actions (or lack of actions) during this holiday left them feeling somewhat disappointed and depressed.

Overall, the feeling that was most expressed was of loneliness.

Feeling “alone” is one of the toughest emotions to deal with.

And, as Christians, we sometimes exasperate this problem because we (wrongly) give too much weight to the emotional “feelings” that surround loneliness.

We believe that our feeling of being alone means that we ARE alone.

For those of you that are dealing with feeling alone right now, we want to encourage you by reminding you that you are never alone…no matter how you “feel” right now.

One of the most beautiful parts of the Christ story is that Jesus experienced EVERYTHING that we, as humans, experience.

And, this includes loneliness.

On the cross, Jesus screams, “Why have you forsaken me?” In Scriptures, forsaken is the word that means abandoned, deserted, left behind. (Matthew 27:46).

Jesus also faced feeling loneliness.

But, we know that God did not abandon Jesus. And, he has not abandoned you.

In fact, one of the clearest and most repeated themes that Jesus expresses is that we are never alone…because he will is always with us.

In Hebrews 13:5, he says, “I WILL NEVER DESERT YOU, NOR WILL I EVER FORSAKE YOU.”

Once saved, we are always his (John 10:28-29).

The God of the universe has made his home in our very hearts (John 14:23).

As are shepherd, he will never leave his sheep (Psalm 23:4).

The real “trick” is to consciously IGNORE your feelings in this matter.

God is with you. You are NOT alone…no matter how you “feel.”

One of my daughter’s favorite Christian bands is a group called “Barlow Girl.”

One of their songs deals with this issue in a very powerful way. It is called, “Never Alone.”

In my opinion, it expresses a mature and faithful way for us to deal with feeling alone. It basically says, “no matter how I feel, I know God is with me.”

The lyrics are…

I waited for you today
But you didn’t show
No no no
I needed You today
So where did You go?
You told me to call
Said You’d be there
And though I haven’t seen You
Are You still there?

[Chorus:]
I cried out with no reply
And I can’t feel You by my side
So I’ll hold tight to what I know
You’re here and I”m never alone

And though I cannot see You
And I can’t explain why
Such a deep, deep reassurance
You’ve placed in my life

We cannot separate
‘Cause You’re part of me
And though You’re invisible
I’ll trust the unseen

I encourage you to trust God that he is with you…no matter how my may be feeling.

The video is below.

Posted: February 18th, 2008 under Uncategorized, Christian Romance, Christian Culture.
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With this week being Valentine’s week, we have talked much about communicating our love for our spouse.

Many of you tried Romantic Printables, Instant Sexy Letters or 101 Great Love Letters.

And, if you are currently in “the dog house” over your romantic performance (or lack thereof) yesterday, it’s not too late.

Sometimes, it is best to keep it simple.

Like the song below, just tell your spouse, “I wanna grow old with you.”

You might not want to use the EXACT words below, but you can communicate the gist and score some big points!

Use the lyrics.

Have a great weekend!

-Robert & Susan

The lyrics to “I Wanna Grow Old With You”…

I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
All I wanna do is grow old with you

I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you

I’ll miss you
Kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold

Need you
Feed you
Even let ya hold the remote control

So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
I could be the man who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you

Also, enjoy the video. It’s one of our favorites.

Posted: February 15th, 2008 under Christian Marriage, Christian Romance.
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Finally…A Tastefully Illustrated Sexual Positions Guide For Christian Couples…

We have received thousands of requests for recommendations of a “non pornographic” guide to sexual positions.

Unfortunately, until now, there were very few, if any, resources to recommend.

The vast majority of sexual position guides are illustrated with photos of couples…um…having sex.

And the few guides that were illustrated in a non-pornographic manner were surrounded by advertisements for semi-pornographic products or web sites.

Certainly, there were no sexual position guides for Christian couples that you could consider not only tasteful…but actually artistically and beautifully presented.

So…

We created the perfect sexual positions guide for Christian couples…from scratch…

We researched hundreds of sexual position guides to find the most exciting, newest positions.

But, unlike most sexual positions guides, we did not duplicate similar positions to give the appearance of hundreds of positions. We listed only those positions that were truly different and we included only those positions that we were physically (and morally) possible for the vast majority of our readers to accomplish.

Then…we hired a Christian artist to render these positions in an artistically pleasing way…sketched in graphic pen.

Our primary request of this artist was that the illustrations in this guide be tasteful and non-pornographic…yet clearly demonstrate enough information to give you the chance to try the positions for yourself…

This is a guide that you will treasure as a valuable resource in your library for years to come.

It will provide you and your spouse with hundreds of nights of fun trying to replicate the positions you find in this guide.

But…you will never be embarrassed by feeling like you are viewing something pornographic. All images are tastefully done (and non-pornographic) like the following…

As you can see, the illustrations are artistic and tasteful…but anything but pornographic…finally!

Plus…we went the extra step of describing for you EXACTLY HOW to perform each position…

This is something that MOST other guides don’t bother to do; they assume that you will (somehow) know what to do…just by looking at the pictures of each position. If you have seen most of these guides, you know this is NOT reality. It may not be rocket science…but, with many positions, you need a clear explanation of the goal you are attempting to achieve…as well as a picture.

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Posted: February 14th, 2008 under Uncategorized.
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